Alison - you have thrown me into a state of confusion.
I started from Agnes TODD marrying James MELLING in Liverpool in 1853 - father John TODD deceased. In 1861 Agnes born Dumfries 28 is living in Everton with mother-in-law Agnes TODD widow 72 born Liverpool
I went backwards to Dumfries 1851 and found Thomas TODD head 21, Nancy TODD 58 mother widow born Kirk Newton Stewart, Agnes daughter 18 and Joane TODD 7 visitor. The age and the Dumfries birth strongly suggest this 18y old is my Agnes.
1841 Queensberry St there is John TODD 48 Agnes 48 John 21 born Ireland? or at least that is what I think the letter stands for, William 15 James 14 Thomas 10 Agnes 9. Interesting mention of Ireland given your reference to Irish Mckeands.
The marrige record I have for John Tod and Agnes Mckeand is an old parish register transcript and is only their names and a date 5th May 1816.
On the IGI is a birth Isobella Tod 26 Sep 1816 father John and mother Agnes Mckeand. I have a record of the births you sent me said to be from the IGI but I have never found them - and this list I was sent says Joh was born 1821 Dumfries. Do you agree with this? - if so what does the census say against his name. There is a big gap in the birth registrations from 1816 to 1821.
Now you say Agnes is living at Broadholm farm in 1851 but no mention of daughter Agnes. Was there a daughter Agnes, or are there 2 families with similar named parents and children especially as your Agnes names Torthorwald as her place of birth?
I feel a headache coming on .........
Why isn't this all straight forward. I also admit that when I searched 'scotlandspeople' I only concentrated on Dumfries.
Are you as confused as I am?
Joy - but enjoying the detection and chase