Kathleen
I needed the tissues!!
This is a very sad story, and I'm sure has been replicated thousands of times. It reminds me just how hard a life many women have had throughout history, and still have, in many parts of the world.
I bet you wish you could trace those missing children, but I suppose there is no way to do so! I wasn't clear from your email - is it just the last-born children (twins?) that are missing?
At any rate, I am certain that wherever she is, she is delighted that you have spent so much time in searching for her, and that you are happy to claim her. Good on you!!!!
MarieC