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Married or unmarried?
« on: Thursday 14 September 06 13:49 BST (UK) »
In a census if the Head has a different surname than the Wife and she is described as unmarried, who's wife is she, if at all? Or is it just a slip of the pen?
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Pearce, Bown,Bulpin, Dyte, Haysham, Pike, Cridge from Somerset
Grisley, Miller, Walker,Channings from London East End
Poffley, Childs from Berkshire
Belton from Sussex
Ball, Duce, Arkinstall from Shropshire
Stock, Pearce, Wheeler from The Isle of Wight
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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #1 on: Thursday 14 September 06 13:51 BST (UK) »
Does it actually say wife in the relationship column?
Middx - VAUS, ROBERTS, EVERSFIELD, INMAN, STAR, HOLBECK, WYATT, BICKFORD, SMITH, REDWOOD
Hants - SMALL, HAMMERTON, GRIST, FRYER, TRODD, DAGWELL, PARKER, WOODFORD, CROUTEAR, BECK, BENDELL, KEEPING, HARDING, BULL
Kent - BAYLY, BORER, MITCHELL, PLANE, VERNON, FARRANCE, CHAPMAN, MEDHURST, LOMAX, WYATT, IDEN
Devon - TOPE, BICKFORD, FOSTER
YKS - QUIRK, McGUIRE, BENN
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Herts - BARNES
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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #2 on: Thursday 14 September 06 13:53 BST (UK) »
It sounds as if she is still single but if you post the details, we'll have a look at it and may be able to give you a better explanation.

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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #3 on: Thursday 14 September 06 14:33 BST (UK) »
It does say Wife and looks like condition is 'Un'. Can't exacyly make out the Head's surname, but it isn't Stock which is the 'Wife's' surname . All the children are Stock also.
If you can look at 1851 census for Elizabeth Stock born 1811, Isle of Wight living in Middlesex. She's at the bottom of the page, the Head's surname has been transcribed by Ancestry as William Royer, but Royer is wrong, it looks like Swyer or similar.
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Pearce, Bown,Bulpin, Dyte, Haysham, Pike, Cridge from Somerset
Grisley, Miller, Walker,Channings from London East End
Poffley, Childs from Berkshire
Belton from Sussex
Ball, Duce, Arkinstall from Shropshire
Stock, Pearce, Wheeler from The Isle of Wight
McVicar, McLachlan from Argyll & London East End


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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #4 on: Thursday 14 September 06 22:58 BST (UK) »
I can see why you're confused!  My bet is that the enumerator made a mistake in putting "wife".  Elizabeth Stock is in the 1861 still listed as "unmarried", lodging now with a Joseph Grisley.  She has two young sons still living with her.

I agree with you about William's surname in the 1851 being Swyer.

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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #5 on: Friday 15 September 06 12:15 BST (UK) »
Thanks Monica...it's Joseph Stock her son we're chasing, we think he turns out to be Joseph Grisley.
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Pearce, Bown,Bulpin, Dyte, Haysham, Pike, Cridge from Somerset
Grisley, Miller, Walker,Channings from London East End
Poffley, Childs from Berkshire
Belton from Sussex
Ball, Duce, Arkinstall from Shropshire
Stock, Pearce, Wheeler from The Isle of Wight
McVicar, McLachlan from Argyll & London East End

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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #6 on: Friday 15 September 06 14:43 BST (UK) »
Elizabeth seems to have been an uninhibited lady!  An illegitimate brood of that size wouldn't have gone down well in those days.

Have you seen the Parish Registers for any of the children?  It would be interesting to see if any fathers are named.  It could be that William Swyer and Joseph Grisley are the children's fathers, particularly in  young Joseph's case.

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Re: Married or unmarried?
« Reply #7 on: Friday 15 September 06 17:35 BST (UK) »
That we will be another trip to London next year. We've sent for young Joseph's BC, he seems to be the link for tracing my wife's Grisley past.
(That sounds terrible!). Joseph Grisley & Elizabeth Stock do marry later, which is why we think Joseph Stock took his stepfather's name.
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Bown/Pearce, Middlezoy, Somerset
Grisley, London, East End
Channing(s), London + Devon + ?
Ball, Dawley, Shropshire
Duce, Shropshire +
Pof(f)ley, Berkshire