Hi Liz
Told you we were a complicated lot

, Grace Sidney/Trueman is down on her wedding certificate (June 10 1880) to Robert as widow, and Robert bachelor, Grace married William Barnes Trueman in 1872, it appears they had a son called John William, why he is called Lawerance on the 1881 census is beyond me, can't find any Lawerances on either side of the family Truemans or Sidney's, he must have been taken in by the Trueman's when Grace died and on the 1891 and 1901 census becomes John William Trueman. I can't find Robert 1882 anywhere on the 1891 census but it seems strange that he was taken in by his Uncle Alexnder Bonallie's family and was living with his cousin Harriet Donkin by the 1901 census. Another Bonallie quirk, he is mentioned as brother in law to William Donkin but he is not Harriet's brother he is her cousin!!!
If you look under the photo restoration section you'll see one of the photos I've posted is of Sarah (Docherty) Bonallie, her sons Joe and Bob and an old man its around 1914 as that was when Joe was born. It can't be her father Patrick Docherty as I think I've found his death, so it's either Alexander or Robert, Robert would be about 65, Alexander about 60 by then, that's what prompted me to start searching to see if it's my great uncle or great grandfather. It's strange how Robert 1849 vanished. There is another photo of Sarah also on the same section with a sailor who I believe is Robert 1882. There were 3 photos in the set, the other was Sarah and the boys I think they must have been taken for when Robert went off to join the merchant navy in WW1.
Yours Julie