I've come to this terrific thread a bit late; I hope it's still okay to post about my best finds in 2006!
My best find was when a cousin found me! He's a distant cousin: his ancestor was the sister of my 3rd-great-grandmother. I hadn't known what had happened to that sister and he told me who she married, etc. A wonderful Rootschatter (Karen) sent me all the census records that gave us so many details. (Thank you again, Karen.)
On a whim late one night, this cousin in England typed our ancestor's name into a search engine and up popped a Rootschat thread with my queries about my 4th-great-grandfather, Barnett Barnett from Chatham, Kent. My cousin frantically joined Rootschat (although it took a bit of figuring out) and PM'ed me. He's not used to this type of message board, so he typed all in caps and didn't provide many details. It was just (all in caps), Who are you and why are you writing about my ancestor? Which, after my responses, progressed to (still all in caps), give me your phone number right now so I can call you.
Well, I was ready to report him to Rootschat as a troll or troublemaker! I mean, who joins Rootschat and on his first day (night) asks for someone's phone number? For all I knew, he was doing it to a whole bunch of people! I decided to hold off a bit and wait and see if he really was related to my ancestor.
Lo and behold, a few emails and one phone call later (I phoned him), I was convinced!
I hadn't heard from him in a few months and thought perhaps he'd lost interest but he contacted me again recently and is as interested as ever in our shared family tree. I'm in the process of printing everything I've got to send to him in England. (There's too much to email and it would be too confusing.) This way he'll see what I've already found and hopefully be able to build on it over time.
Another best find was the maiden name of my 4th-great-grandmother. Thank to the fabulous folks at FreeBMD, I found the birth registration for her youngest child (my own ancestor was born prior to civil registration). I ordered the certificate and learned that my 4th-great-grandmother's maiden name was Simmons. This confirmed that the marriage record I had found between Sarah Simmons and John Beaumont was theirs! (Too bad the church record doesn't list their parents. I'm stuck again, LOL.)
Many thanks to the Rootschatters who have helped me and who have helped others. This is the best website!
Regards,
Josephine