Hi again Revmother,
I have been on all those sites i spent a fortune on scotland people (but dont tell OH)

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I got all the names of possible parents for james and agnes, but have spent weeks going off in the wrong directions , i know that on the 1861 cesus , agnes was not at home, but james sister margeret from scotland was visiting , so i searched all deaths for agnes and came up with died 1858, havent found her on any other census after that so think that is her . I have the names of children , 1 was called james who is my direct line , so i think i am on the right track there .
I have trawled all the greer,s in scotland , in all counties , but there were so many of them that came from ireland , so not sure which way to go .
I have been trying to trace the lowrie,s in scotland by , james dad john was a butcher on maraige cert and he had a sister called margaret , am i getting myself in a mess ? or do you think this is the way to go ?.
Thank you for your advise and help .
regards sue