I have George & Eliza's marriage certificate (m. 1888 in Exeter) which says George was a Widower and I have them in the 1881 census, thanks. Their 3 daughters were born illegitimately.
So yes Deb you could say that I've been looking for the first marriage. Sorry to confuse, you know how it is when there's so much info floating around in your mind!
Ryan.