There is no question on an English marriage which asks whether a father was deceased or not - just name and occupation. When asked those questions some people might also volunteer the additional information that their father was deceased. Some officials chose to add the information, some did not. Some officials chose to ask the question whether the fathers were or not deceased, many did not not. It was not a requirement, merely some officials custom and practice. Therefore the absence of the word deceased on a marriage certificate is no evidence for whether the father was or wasn't deceased by the time of the marriage.
Jane seems pretty consistent about her birth year being circa 1818 on both the 1851 census and the 1861 and 1871 censuses.
1861 census RG9 354 folio 82
6 Lower East Place Lambeth Surrey
C Lock 41 Middlesex, Head Married Labourer
Jane Lock 43 Surrey, Wife Married
Harriet Lock 19 Middlesex, Daughter
Elizth Lock 17 Middlesex, Daughter
Chas Lock 13 Middlesex, Son
Eliza Lock 11 Middlesex, Daughter
Henry Lock 6 Middlesex, Son
Jane Lock 4 Middlesex, Daughter
Wm Lock 2 Middlesex, Son
1871 census RG10 665 folio 59
8 Francis Court Lambeth London
Charles T Locke 51 Cathbone Pl, Oxford St, Head Married Smith's Labourer
Jane Locke 53 Great Bookham, Surrey, Wife Married No trade
Elizabeth Locke 26 Fitzroy Square Daughter Charwoman
Eliza A Locke 21 East St Lambeth Daughter No trade
William Locke 19 Regent St Lambeth Son Smith's labourer unemployed
Henry G Locke 11 Duke St Lambeth Son Worker at pottery
Jane Locke 14 Lambeth East St Daughter Servant goes out to work
Emily Locke 9 Lambeth East St Daughter
George Locke 7 Lambeth East St Son
If Jane as a child was brought up in Great Bookham she may very well have thought she was born there.
George Tyrell aged 30 and born Great Bookham was a labourer in Walton on Thames on the 1851 census. Still there unmarried an undergardener in 1871.
This is a possible for him in 1841.
HO107 1071/8 folio 35 page 12
Cobham Surrey
Elizabeth Tyrrell 60 a tick in the column born in Scotland, Ireland or foreign parts
Henry Tyrrell 25 Surrey Ag lab
George Tyrrell 21 Surrey Ag lab
A birth in Ireland for the wife of a soldier would be consistent with William being in the army.
A possible baptism for Henry
HENRY TURRELL
Christening: 02 JUL 1815 East Clandon, Surrey
Father: WILLIAM TURRELL
Mother: ELIZABETH
George Tyrell was in Cobham in 1881.
Henry Tyrell aged 42 born East Clandon and unmarried was a labourer and a pauper in Epsom Union workhouse on the 1861 census.
1849 Burial at St Andrew Cobham
Elizabeth Tyrell aged 70
Deaths Jun 1849
Tyrrell Elizabeth Epsom 4 109
Regards
Valda