The good news is - you are both so clever that you found the answer and didn't even know it. I now have these documents:
GRO Marriage Cert of 1842, Bridgnorth, Shropshire
Robert McLelland, Batchelor, (Tailor) - Father John McLelland (Currier)
Mary Laye, Spinster - father Edward Laye (Joiner)
Then Mary McLelland dies in 1846 (I didn't get death cert but her death is Indexed as registered in Q1 1847).
GRO Marriage Cert 1848, Wombridge, Shropshire (Salop)
Robert Lelland,
Widower, (Tailor) father John Lelland (Victualler?)
Maria Nock,
Widow, Father William Nock
and then!
Thomas Woofe birth certificate gives parents as
Richard Woof (saddler) and
Maria Woof formerly NockAnd we already have two possible deaths for Richard Woof.
Thos Woff (Thomas Woofe) is listed as Robert McLellands step-son in one of the census records so this about confirms it I would think!
Don't know if there were any children by Mary Laye.
I couldn't have done it without all your fantastic help - now the next mission is to try and find his father (and mother).
There are a million John McLellands (various spellings) out there and although I know what a Currier is - I have no idea what the other occupation listed is only six years later.
Is there a website containing old job titles or anything?
The fact that Gadget found thisbaptism:
"6 December 1818 Robert McClelland parents - John McClelland and Agnes Gardner, Wigtown"
and we have two sources confirming his father as John and his DOB as 1818 tells me this is a good lead to follow.
Thanks again for the fantastic help - couldn't have done it without you - and you are teaching me tricks along the way. Julia