Thanks everyone for your help.

I'll list what I already have, to save duplication
Stephen Bastian married
Elizabeth Gilbert 6 May 1783 Breage. Stephen died before 1841 census.
Stephen & Elizabeth's children, all christened Germoe:
Ann 14 Jan 1798
Thomas 20 Nov 1785, d16 Sep 1786
Margaret 5 Jun 1795
Gabriel 29 Mar 1801, d 17 Apr 1801
Ann Bastian married
John Polglase 17 Apr 1822 at Germoe. Ann signed name. John signed X.Photocopy of parish register. Estimate John born 1792-1795. No details of parents or siblings.
1841 Census, Trewethin Common, Germoe, Kerrier-Cornwall (FreeCEN printout and printout of scan of original)
Polglase:
John, M, 45, Copper Miner, b Cornwall.
Ann, F, 40, b Cornwall
James, M, 15, b Cornwall
Elizabeth, F, 15, b Cornwall
John, M, 15, b Cornwall
Ann, F, 13, b Cornwall
Stephen, M, 7, b Cornwall - (Stephen Bastian Polglase)
William, M, 4, b Cornwall
Phillipa, Female, 10m, b Cornwall
Bastian, Elizabeth, F, 80, b Cornwall (Ann's mother)
(Earlier Phillipa born/christened 3 Feb 1833, died an infant.)
1851 Census, Centenary Row, Camborne (I have print of scan of original)
Polglase:John, Head, Unmarried, 25, Copper Miner, b Germoe
Elizabeth, Sister, Unmarried, 27, , b Germoe
William, Brother, Unmarried, 14, Copper Miner, b Germoe
Phillipa, Sister, Unmarried, 10, Scholar, b Germoe
William Taylor, Lodger, Unmarried, 14, Copper Miner, b Cornwall, Unreadable
(Family split up - have parents died?)
1861 Census, Centenary St, Camborne, St Martins, Redruth-Cornwall(Printout of Free-Cen & printout of scan of original)
Roberts -
Joseph, Head, Married, M, 33, Miner, Constantine
Elizth, Wife, Married, F, 34, b Germoe (Philippa's sister)
John P, Son, Unmarried, M, 5, b Camborne (John Polglase Roberts)
Catherine Ann, Dau, Unmarried, F, 3, b Camborne
Joseph, Son, Unmarried, M, 2, born Camborne (Joseph died in mining accident. Son was Joseph Bastian Roberts.)
Philippa, Dau, Unmarried, F, 1m, b Camborne
Polglase, Philippa, Boardr, Unmarried, Female, 20, Miliner, b Germoe
Now to Lancashire.
1871 Census, Dalton, Lancashire - relying on Elizabeth Roberts' decendent, who confirmed 1861 entry, and gave me 1871 census link.
Philip A Paleflase - She is with the Roberts family again. The gt ... grandaughter got this from the Ancestry.com transcript. View of original shows Philip A should be Philipa, and Paleflase is actually Polglase. This is recent contact, don't have full details yet. My contact's line is through the Joseph and Joseph Bastian Roberts.
Now to Wales.
1881 Census, 69 Upper Pentre, Eysttl St, St John near Swansea, Glamorgan. Photocopy of microfische.
Penrose:John, Head, Married, M, 50, b Cornwall
Philippa, Wife, Married, F, 35, b Cornwall
Charles E, Son, M, 4, b Swansea, Glamorgan Charles Edwin)
Frederick G, Son, M, 1, b Swansea, Glamorgan (Frederick George, my grandfather)
(1881 Census, 24 Low Fell Croft, Dalton in Furness, Lancashire - Joseph Roberts 54, Iron Ore Mine, Elizabeth Roberts 55, Joseph 22 Iron Ore Mine, Francis P 20 dressmaker, Edith 16 dressmaker assist)
1891 Census, 28 Park Road, Tredeager, West Monmouthshire - printout of scan of original.
Penrose:John, Head, Married, 64, Confectioner, b Cornwall
Phillippa, Wife, Married, 45,b Cornwall
Charles, Son, 14, Baker, b Swansea
Fred, Son, 11, Scholar, b Pontypridd (should be Swansea)
Joseph, Son, 9, Scholar, b Swansea (should be Pontypridd)
Richard, Son, 6, Scholar, b Cardiff
1901 Census, 24 Moira St, St Mary, All Saints, Cardiff, Glamorganshire I have printout from
www.census.pro.gov.uk, Ancestry.co.uk, and of scan of original
Penrose:John, Head, Married, 78, M, Confectioner, b Truro
Phillippa, Wife, Married, 56, F, b St German
Fredk, Son, Single, 21, M, Baker, b Swansea
Richard, Son, Single, 16, M, Messenger Boy, b Cardiff
1901 Census, Gable Cottages, Manorbier St James, Pembrokeshire www.census.pro.gov.uk & Ancestry.com.uk
Charles E Penrose, Head, Married, 23, M, Baptist Minister, b Swansea
Emma (Anna?) Penrose, Wife, Married, 27, F, b Plympton Devon
(census.pro says Emma, Ancestry.com says Anna)
John Penrose was born somewhere in Truro, Cornwall. He died and was buried Jan-Mar 1902 in Cardiff, aged 77.
Philippa Polglase was born 21 Jul 1840 in Boscreage, Germoe, Cornwall. (Cousin has birth certificate.) Christened 21 Aug 1843 at Breage. (printout of scan of original.) Philippa Penrose died 20 Feb 1924 in Cardiff - birthday book owned by Charles' wife. Yet supposedly she was buried 13 Feb 1924 in Whitchurch, Cardiff.

Children:
Charles Edwin, Apr-Jun 1877, Swansea
Frederick George, 17 Jan 1880, Swansea
Joseph Henry, Jan-March 1882, Pontypridd
Richard Thomas, 6 Feb 1855, Cardiff
John & Philippa's ages are inconsistent in censuses. And often vague about their place of birth. Not helpful.

Need to find John before 1881.
I had become very fond of my 'other' John and his family.

I'm beginning to 'grieve' for their loss already as I had begun to feel I 'knew' them.
Have you noticed HOW MANY John Penroses there are in Cornwall?

You are all wonderful people.

I am truly grateful for your willingness to help me, and amazed at your generosity.
Thank you.
Brissygal
