Hi Roots Chat :-)
Thanks for your help.
Sorry, I didn't make that clear above - the marriage between Charles CROCK and Sarah GRAY definately took place in South Shields in 1883 - I've recently got the marriage cert from the GRO. I had thought it took place in 1873, as the photocopy of the orginal marriage cert I have says - but it turned out the orginal certificate had been altered - presumably to cover up the fact that they only married after the births of their children.
The grandchildren of Charles (still living) were told that their father, grandfather and great grandfather (Joseph) all came from South Shields -Herbert was certainly born in South Shields, but as I can't find a record of Charles birth - I'm currently stuck.
Sarah was born in Tuam, County Galway, Ireland. The 1881 Census states her birthplace as Ireland but does not give a birthplace for Charles (at least the index on the LDS site doesn't).
Herbert Crock who turned up in your search above was my Great Grandfather, he was born Nov 1882 (birth was registered in quarter Mar 1883). My Grandmother (Herberts daughter) can recall a problem with his birth certificate having the wrong date and him having to get a new one - very probably his birth certificate was altered to a date after the marriage.
Sarah Ann was almost certainly their daughter who died in infancy.
There were 3 other children, Selina Crock, born Manchester 1875, married in Cardiff in 1891 and died in Cardiff abt 1935. Charles Crock born Manchester abt 1877, married in Cardiff in 1897 and died in Johannesburg circa 1960 apparently he was knocked down by a tram!!!!!
Also George Crock born in Hull, married and died in Cardiff.
I can't find the family in the 1891 Census either, they were almost certainly living in Wales by then, being as Selina Crock married there that year (age 16). They were possibly living in Chepstow, Monmouthshire during the late 1880s - but I can't track them down. I have them in Cardiff in the 1901 Census - Charles Crock had died by then.
Crock is an unusual name, I'm beginning to think that it was not the name that Charles Crock was born with.
I've plenty of other lines to research, its just that his one intrigues me the most - I'd like to try and establish why they didn't marry until after their children were born - my Grandmother (82 - their Grandchild) thinks "its very amusing".
Caro