Hi Kate, Suz....
The Thomas (jnr?) found in Aberdeen 1871 - I believe he was emumerated twice in that Census.
The one Suz posted is for the Ships' Company on board of the ship named "Clyde"
However, it looks like Thomas was also enumerated off shore:
1871 : Abeerdeen St Nicholas, Aberdeenshire, ScotlandParish Ref:: St Nicholas 168/1, ED 48, pg 16, HS 91
Address: 1 Nelson Street
Head: Thomas J FAYRER 43, Seaman on H M S Ship Clyde, b England
Wife: Eliza A FAYRER 42, b England, Seamans Wife.
Boarder: Charlotte DELOE? 6, Scholar, b England
You would need to check the originals on Scotlands People. - however, not only do they have his surname right TWICE
but I doubt there were 2 men of that same name and age on same ship at the same time?
He is also on the 1881 Scotland:
1881: Govan Church, Lanarkshire, ScotlandRef: Par 646/1, E 8, Pg 9
Address: 32 MacLean Street
Head: Thomas FAYRER 53, Naval Pensioner, b England
Wife: Eliza FAYRER 52 born England
He died that same year in Scotland:1881: Thomas John FAYRER , age 53, died Govan Lanarkshire
This is only an Index search - I did try it with a Mother's surname of Ly" and it came up blank, but that is not to say it wasn't Lynall or similar. You would need to check the original death cert on Scotland's People - you are lucky, a Scottish death cert has provision to include the deceased's father's name & occupation, and the mother's name and maiden name.
There are 5 FAYRER deaths recorded on SP 1855 to 1956. One of them is Thomas J. But I cannot identify one of the other 4 as being an Eliz*. It looks to me as if she went back to England after he died and outlived him by 18 years.
Deaths Qtr Jun 1909
Eliza Ann FAYRER - age 81 - Registered: Portsmouth REf: 2b 299
Will have a look for her in 1891/1901
Cheers
AMBLY