Hi Gobbo,
I too thought first of the Hebrides but his second marriage cert. says Azores. Believe me, I looked at everything west of Scotland.
Hi Josephine, I did look at the cemetery but nothing in memorials, headstones etc. My cousin wrote to the C of E rector/chaplain whatever at Rookwood cemetery but also had no luck.
One child did return to New Zealand, MarieC, but that's the branch my NZ cousin belongs to and he couldn't find a death for Elizabeth there either. However, I will follow that line and check for any family who were living outside of New South Wales at the time of her death.
Which has to be after 1880 (the divorce) and by what would be about her 100th birthday.
I've tried the IGI, using the Balfour name in every possible sense, as an adopted or step child, but it hasn't helped. I have no idea how she got the Balfour in there, she was plain Elizabeth Davis on the Stately. I even contacted the records office (can't remember off hand which county) where the "young ladies of good family" who went on the Stately stayed, with the Female Immigration Fund, before they left England but got no joy.
If you google STATELY or FEMALE IMMIGRATION FUND you will see how well documented that part of her life was, then my cousin has spent so much time searching records in NZ and chasing up family members for stories, add to that the good luck we had to find photos from the Holterman Collection, then to lose her after the divorce is just unbelievable.
I guess a genealogists work is never ending. But then I intend to keep going for another 30 years at least.
Cheers,
Leonie.