Hi, NGHIC .
First you need to post another reply! (3 in all) to use the PM system of contact. Rules of the website is -all new members need 3 posts (I haven't a clue either why?) on the public board forum threads to use the PM's.
3 other guides and general rules
1) Rule- We never put our email address on the public boards
2) Rule -We never talk about living people by name or age (or date /or year of Birth etc)
as they may personally object or legal reasons
Guide - ID theft is rampant, hence we try not to use our own I D's and advice most members not to give out their email address- (willy nilly) to any unknown new members as there are people who pretend to do ancestry
to obtain ID's/Email addresses (ie:~ to send out spam/scam mail) or join websites like this for just that purpose. They usually show themselves up
by direct questions or haven't time or patience as normal members doing honest family history interests! have.
Not so much now! but many banks used to use mothers maiden names as security questions.
Therefore a new-bee asking about using PM's and wanting members to sent email addresses by PM's sets alarm bells ringing. Most ancestry new members come straight in yapping about their own ancestry first and wanting info or help with it!
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However! A slow approach though the normal routes as below may bring results and in time members may ? build up a trust with you in the same interests as you.
I advise using the Forum tab & Help tab at the top of page menu and look down the list.
Use this forum board in the link below and start a fresh topic of your interest
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/board,296.0.htmlRegards
Dob's