cant find marriage

[newby dee]

I can not find a marriage for johnathan puttnam and a mary ann tulett/toolit would of been roughly @1874 it would of been in london maybe middlesex or buckinghamshire.

can you please help i am going crazy , also as i am still learning the ropes of this family tree addiction can you answer this  question please are all marriages births and deaths on sites like ancestry or are some not on there yet for various reasons...
thank you
 

[suzard]

Do you have them on any census - for age p.o.b. etc?

Suz

[bearkat]

1881
RG11/442 Folio 25 Page 9
15 Brady St, Whitechapel
Joanthan PUTTMAN age 42 umbrella maker born Bethnal Green
wife Mary A born St George in the East
children
Willie 3
Rose 1
mother Jane age 60 born Berkshire
brother Charles 30 born Bethnal Green

I can't see a marriage on freeBMD 

[newby dee]

i do have the 1891 census ...
thanks for trying ..
the marriage is a brain stresser though !

[carol8353]

Maybe they never actually did......get married that is 

Carol

[hiraeth]

What age was Mary Ann?  could she have been a widow and married under another name?

Heather

[suzard]

Have you the birth reg of Willie and Rose?

Maybe they were not reg in name of Putman

Suz

[newby dee]

hum... did think about the not getting married ..but where else can i look and also is all birth marriage death etc available on ancestry etc or is it not complete

mary would of been @ 21yrs
using that marriage year  loosely because first daughter was born 1874

[carol8353]

Mary A was down on the 1881 as age 28 ie being born in 1853.

Carol