Hi JB
I'm coming to Ilford next week, probably on the 31st. My brother died when he was a baby, back in 1944, and I've never been to the grave, so two birds with one stone. I'll have a quick look for Mo's while I'm there, if I have time, but she may like someone to have a more thorough search. Thanks for the offer anyway.
I left Ilford in 1959, and haven't been back since about 1972, so it has probably changed out of all recognition since then.
Regards
Audrey