Can anyone help solve this mystery???

[pompeygirl1]

Hey all  any help with this would be most welcome.

My paternal Grandmothers maiden name was Amelia Emily Hoare bn 1895 southampton hampshire.
I have found her on the 1901 RG13/1055 census aged 5 living with Emily NORTH not worth, her grandmother.
and have found Emily North, her grandmother on the 1881 census RG11/1207 Folio 28 Page 47  Emily North b1858 salisbury wilts.

She had daughters Minnie, Lilian, and Emily and a son Benjamin. I presume one of the girls was my grandmothers mother, most likely Emily as she is the eldest and my grandmothers middle name was Emily.
That is far as I have got.
 Apart from finding Minnie aged 21 and working as a servant in 1901 RG13/1053 the rest of the family seem to have vanished off the face of the earth.

I don't know my Grandmothers fathers name other than it must have been Hoare.
I have trawled through so many Hoares i'm dizzy.
My favourite Hoare to date is Fancy Hoare what a name to give a child!
Anyway, I'm completely stumped! The answer is probably staring me in the face but i'm caught in the same circle of nothingness. Any ideas?
Thanks in advance
Sandra

[Cas (stallc)]

Possible Marriages Dec 1894   
 
AMOS  Rosina    Southampton  2c 4   
Hoare  Ephraim Thomas G     Southampton  2c 4   
North  Amelia     Southampton  2c 4   
Webb  William     Southampton  2c 4

UPDATE - Extracted IGI (possible connection to father William?)
AMELIA NORTH - EPHRAIM THOMAS GEORGE HOARE 
Marriage:  11 NOV 1894   Christ Church, Southampton

Think birth cert for Amelia Emily Hoare would give you confirmation.
 
Cas

[forthefamily]

Two extracted christenings in the IGI

Benjamin North 01 March 1877 Southampton Hampshire

Emily Lydia North 28 Sept 1873 Christ Church Southampton

Father William North ...mother Emily

Possible marriage on BMD

Sep 1872 Southampton 2c 10 - Emily Cottrell and William North

mab

[madpants]

From the British Isles Vital records index
with parents Emily and William NORTH

Emily Lydia NORTH
chr 28th Sept 1873
Christ Church Southampton

Joseph Charles NORTH
chr 16th March 1876
Christ Church Southampton

Benjamin NORTH
chr 1 March 1877
Holy Trinity Southampton

[Cas (stallc)]

1891 - RG12 Piece 915 Folio 49 Page 38
Southampton  Hampshire  

Emily North snr & family no dau, Emily...

Do you need full transcript?

Cas

[madpants]

Surely her birth cert would give you the parents names

Amelia Emily Hoare

Southampton 2c 19
Sept Q 1895

[Cas (stallc)]

Marriages Sep 1895 
 
Jeffery  Charles    Southampton  2c 8   
North  Emily Lydia     Southampton  2c 8   
Olive  Elizabeth Jane     Southampton  2c 8   
Paddock  Thomas Henry     Southampton  2c 8

Marriages Sep 1904 
 
Ingram  Eva    Southampton  2c 6   
North  Lilian     Southampton  2c 6   
Thorne  William     Southampton  2c 6   
TRIGGS  Frederick Ernest     Southampton  2c 6

[forthefamily]

Marriages Sep 1909   


ATKINS    Mary Ann   Southampton    2c   34    
CAIELS    Alice     Southampton    2c   34    
HICKS    Ernest Luke    Southampton    2c   34    
KIRBY    Harry       Bradfield    2c   34    
NORTH   Benjamin   Southampton    2c   34

mab

[pompeygirl1]

Thankyou all,
something else to work on.
I don't have or know how to access parish, christening records etc. and I don't have a birth cert for amelia emily hoare so I have been groping around the census and bmd's for info. a couple of times I found Emily North snr listed as married, but no husband name or whereabouts. William looks a likely contender as Emily jnr's father and snr's hubby.
I have a miniscule idea that Amelia Emily Hoare may have been illegitimate and raised by her grandma Emily North snr. But if that is the case would she have been given her Fathers surname?