Hi Jean, my relative was taken back to his home town to be buried thats the only reason I found about him. I was searching through a burial register for some one else & found him. His place of death was listed as the Asylum.
I found the book below fairly interesting it discusses some of the myths around why people were committed by family members. For example one idea was that unruly/wayward/difficult family members needed too much looking after & families needed to work so they had them committed.
http://books.google.com/ The Invisible Plague: The Rise of Mental Illness from 1750 to the Present
By Edwin Fuller Torrey, Judy Miller
In 1800s Women could be divorced on the grounds of Lunacy, a husband could have his wife committed & then get a divorce, usually the chap would then remarry a younger women! apparently this happened quite a lot in the early 1800s. Ive read about cases were alcoholism and even the menopause have resulted in people being committed.
Generally though, Violence toward another family member seems to be the main reason for having a relative committed.
Nic
Added: I came across this, I have changed the wording so I don't get told off for copyright.
Whether inmates were recorded as suffering from Mania, Melancholia or some other disorder, generally what seems to have instigated their committal is violent behavior toward a member of the family, self or neighbor.
In most cases people were not committed because they were Ill but because they became violent or threatened to attack someone.
Families often admitted that the relative had been ill for months/years & nothing was done until they became violent. Equally people who did not show any previous signs of mental Illness were committed after an unexpected threat or attack.