George Tyrrell c1830 Eastbourne

[Cockneyrebel]

I'm trying to find George Walter Tyrrell bc1830 in Eastbourne who married Mercy Waymark 4th qtr 1887 at Eastbourne(her 2nd marriage-not sure about him). She appears on 1891 census as married living with grandchild but George isn'tn there. I can't find either of them on the 1901 nor any death records.
There seems to be another Geo. W. Tyrrell lurking in the records who only confuses me further!
Fresh eyes would be helpful.
CR

[Tati]

Hi Cockneyrebel,

Is this your George in 1891?

1891
RG12/773 126 79
Eastbourne, Sussex
79 Cavendish Pl
Alfred John Phillips, head, 27, Printer's Manager, b. Sussex St Leonard's on Sea
Adelaide F, wife, 27, Confectioner, b. Eastbourne
Adela Ger^e L, dau, 5, scholar, b. do.
Cyril Alfd, son, 2, b. do.
George Walter Tyrrell, stepfather in law, mar, 61, Carpenter, b. Brighton
George Walter Tyrrell, stepbrother in law, 20, Violonist, b. Eastbourne

 

Seems he was indeed married before:
1881
http://search.ancestry.co.uk/cgi-bin/sse.dll?db=uki1881&indiv=try&h=21805259
RG11/1039 4 2

The same man is still with his son (and family) in 1901, noted as married but Mercy isn't there

[Tati]

Death

George W Tyrrell age 81
Dec 1911 Eastbourne 2b 77

[Cockneyrebel]

No, Tati thats not him-Mercy was previously married to Henry Sayers who died in 1881. That one is the confusing one!
CR

[Cockneyrebel]

Hi again, the one shown as living with his family shown on the Ancestry link has  a wife called Susanna albeit shes a bit younger than him!
CR

[Tati]

I can't see another one at all  

I'm not sure how Mercy's previous marriage rules the 1881 census for George out?

[Cockneyrebel]

Hi Tati,
She didn't marry until 4th qtr 1887 to Geo Tyrrell so the latter should appear on the 1891/1901 census with Mercy?
Cr

[Tati]

Well, you said earlier that you've found Mercy without him in 1891!

[Cockneyrebel]

Hi Tati,
Perhaps you're right about George-do you think he was living a double life-maybe he and Mercy fell out early in their marriage and they went their separate ways?
Did you come across Mercy in the 1891/1901 census?
CR