Hi guys, and thank you for the welcome.
i did a bit more digging, and found a Robert who was christened on 26th Dec 1790 in Barnard Castle, might be the same one, his parents are showing as Thomas and Mary.
The only other one i found was in Staindrop, christened 02 March 1782, parents are showing only a mother Ann, no father, so im more inclined to think it was the first one, as Robert had siblings born after him, so there must have been a father.
Colin, where can i find out online about the marriage you mentioned?
i know on BMD the records only go back to 1837. Without more details i cant really order any cert's to confirm him.
Thanks
tracy