Bit of a cheat really, saying I think this site will help me....
I've only just stumbled on this thread and I've been helped tremendously already.
There were two other sites that were very dear to me, one, sadly is no more, which is a shame, because it had a tree building section that was very, very good.
The other has members who are just as generous with their time and support as Roots, but the system and the moderation is diabolical, and no one in their right might would stay there...which says a lot for me...
As long as Roots is standing and will have me, I'll be here and spreading the word about this wonderful site and its wonderful people.
Oh, and by the way, Rabbit, not only Gravestone, but the written word in general... letters, postcards, whatever, all included.