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Names on Tombstones
« on: Thursday 26 February 09 20:19 GMT (UK) »
Hi,

I have always thought that when a name was on a tomstone, it meant the person was buried there.  Now, I am not so sure.  Having seen the tombstone of my 3 X gt grandparents, it has the names of five of their sons and three of their daughters.

The parish records show burials for all but two of the sons.  These two sons (twins born in 1786) died in 1809 and 1811 and, if family legend is to be believed, were 'terrors' and died fighting the French.  IF this is true, I presume they would be buried where they died and not with the rest of the family.

Anybody any thoughts?

Sue


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Re: Names on Tombstones
« Reply #1 on: Thursday 26 February 09 20:37 GMT (UK) »
Hi Sue,
Where is the headstone?
In Scotland it is very common to find headstones marking the grave of one or more people, with several others of the family mentioned on the stone but not buried under it.  So it's kind of used as a memorial to those others who died away from home/family.

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Re: Names on Tombstones
« Reply #2 on: Thursday 26 February 09 20:39 GMT (UK) »

Yes quite common to find various members of a family named on stones but not buried in the grave.

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Re: Names on Tombstones
« Reply #3 on: Thursday 26 February 09 20:46 GMT (UK) »
Thanks for your replies - no not Scotland, Gloucestershire.

Note to self - Always check burials in parish records, do not assume they are buried in a grave even if their name is on it.

That's a useful lesson to learn

Sue


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Re: Names on Tombstones
« Reply #4 on: Thursday 26 February 09 23:31 GMT (UK) »
Thanks for your replies - no not Scotland, Gloucestershire.

Note to self - Always check burials in parish records, do not assume they are buried in a grave even if their name is on it.

That's a useful lesson to learn

Sue

Just to confuse the issue even more (sorry !)

My Nana died last year ........... she is listed in the Manchester Online search engine (already!)

She is actually in there TWICE - and both are legitimate reasons for being entered in the Database.

The first entry is for the date of her Funeral and Cremation.............

Exactly a week later we had a second family ceremony and her ashes were scattered on my grandads grave (as nana wanted)

Because to do this they actualy lift up some of the grass and scatter the ashes into the grave its classed the same way as a burial.........

So she has an entry for both a cremation - and a burial - same place ......... a week apart .
Technically she had both............and she is already in the book of rememberance - aND on grandads headstone!

LOL Nana always did like to be different!
I am going to have to make sure its written up in the tree tho cos otherwise I can see family members being totaly confused in years to come!

Gaille
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Re: Names on Tombstones
« Reply #5 on: Friday 27 February 09 14:36 GMT (UK) »
I'm a volunteer for the War Graves Photographic project and it is common for the name of a dead service man or woman to be put on the family grave even when they are buried elsewhere. I suppose it makes them feel closer to home and gives the family somewhere to visit and leave flowers.

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Re: Names on Tombstones
« Reply #6 on: Friday 27 February 09 17:14 GMT (UK) »
Gaille and B

Thank you for your replies.

Now that I think about it, I can see that this would happen.  I suppose it was just that I had never thought about it and had made the assumption that the name on the tombstone meant that the person was buried in that plot.

Sue