Hi jesilw
To reply to Kirkmichael first
The death of the infant in 1941 may be a link to the family.
The same name appearing may be a coincidence but I am not sure.
I will research that further as I will the 1954 death.
Further info awaited with interest !
The Nicholas Conning who married John Armour in St Quivox (There is a record of this marriage in Ayr as well but I think it is the same people) is I am sure, my GGGG Grandmaother.
She was born about 1812/1813. I can find her on the 1861 census (aged 48) but not therafter so at the moment I assume that she died sometime between 1861 and 1871. I cannot find a death for her.
Such double recording of banns/marriage is common, most probably meaning that one of the couple resided in Ayr, and the other in the neighbouring parish of St Quivox.
Between 1861 and 1871 there are 9 female ARMOUR deaths in the County of Ayr, but none with a given name approaching 'Nicolas' or the other surname anything approaching 'CANNING', -
ARMOUR ANN BRACKENBRIDGE
ARMOUR CATHERINE MCALLISTER
ARMOUR HELEN MURPHY LECKIE
ARMOUR JANE MCCRONE MCMONAN
ARMOUR JANE WALLACE
ARMOUR JANET GOUDIE
ARMOUR MARGARET HAMILTON CUMMING & LEITCH
ARMOUR MARGARET BROADFOOT WHITEFORD
....this searching on the basis of a year of birth of 1812 +/- 10
Searching for the death of a John ARMOUR in Ayrshire between 1861 and 1871 of like age to Nicolas, i.e. born 1812 +/- 10 produces just 4 results, one of which is the record for John ARMOUR in Ayr, Shoemaker, Married to Nicolas CONNING [sic], aged 58, Informant Son, John ARMOUR of George Street, - I was there y'day !
Sooooo..... unless John got it wrong, his mother was still alive; and may well have been living in Ayr unless, of course, she had deserted her husband John at some previous date.
Based on that info you'll find the widow Nicholes [sic] ARMOUR in Ayr in 1871, Head of Household, with Son Robert, 27, unmarried, a Mason, and a lodger.
Does that qualify as finding some hide and hair !
IGI is of no help in identifying children of the couple.
At least this appears to rule out the emigration of John and Nicolas, unless, of course, son John or another child emigrated after 1871, and mother went with them !!
This view would tend to be reinforced by there being no later death record for Nicolas, of whatever spelling, especially in the context of there being no matching 1881 or 1891 census entry, but that's not to say that spelling variations won't play merry h*** with that idea !
There is a death for an Agnes Nicholas Armour in 1869 but that is up another branch of my tree and this little girl was only 1 year 10 months old.
Understood.
Orraverybest
Wullie