Hi Jan,
Here are all the Barlows I could find in Grimstone. Including an Elizabeth 64 but she is not a widow.
Thomas Barlow Head 62 Ag lab b. Colchester, Essex
Elizabeth " Wife 64 b. Grimstone
Chapman Field farm, Grimstone
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Mary Barlow Head widow 38 Field work b. Royden
Martha " Dau 14 Field work b. Grimstone
Mary Ann " " 11 Scholar "
Robert " Son 10 "
John " son 7 "
Golston Rd, Grimstone
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James Barlow Mar Head 61 Ag lab b. Grimstone
Mary " Mar Wife 65 b. Hockham
Henry " Un son 23 " b. Grimston
James " Un son 18 " b. Grimstone
Eliza " Widow d in L 26 b. Holston/Halston
William " un gson 6 b. Grimstone
Thomas " un gson 4 b. London/Lodden
Polnow rd, Grimstone (not sure of name but this is what it looks like ok)
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Now for the biggest and complexist one.
Jane Panks Head Widow 76
John Panks Barlow Son Mar 45 Carpenter journeyman
Martha Do wife Mar 43
Robert Do Son Un 81 ?? Bricklayer Journeyman
Martha Panks barlow dau un 15(Start of next page)
Harriett do dau un 13
Margaret do dau un 9
Emma do dau un 7
Lavidia do dau un 5
Mary A do dau un 1 or 11 or 1t
John Panks do son un 11 with plus sign next to it
Whether Mary and john were 1 year old twins or Mary was one and john is suppose to be another grandchild age 11 is your guess. Wait theres more
Hd or Ad Simins 33 Ag lab lodger (as if they needed another body in the house)
John Panks g.son 3mts old.
They were all born in Grimstone.
I have transcribed this as I saw it. Do is the same as the enumerator did and it only occured once after the first name. Whether they are all Panks Barlow or just Panks is up to you.
The 3mts old gson was just Panks and I presume he is John and Marthas grandson.
As for Robert I presume he should either be 18 not 81 (It clearly says 81) or he is Jane Panks brother.
Hope it doesn't give you too much of a headache.
All the best Angela.