Ah yes, tidying up write-ups! Now there's a good idea that I've still to pursue. I think I'm more an an amasser than a sorter of info at the moment.
I saw two death records for an Estera Kaplan, one in 1886 and one in 1888. No idea if one of them is her, though imagine one must be. Interestingly her son Benjamin called his daughter born 1893 Esther and her grandson Harris (my great grandfather) called his first daughter Esther, born in 1892 (yes, bit of an age gap thing going on there). My middle name is Esther too, but that's just a coincidence, albeit a nice one!
I'm not sure about ordering directly from the Kalisz archives but think they are available through the mormon centre
http://www.familysearch.org When I made enquiries previously I found I would have to go to a centre to order records then go to view rather than order online but I think this might have changed. However it all looks so complicated I haven't the will to pursue it at the moment!
Thanks for the info on Rose which I will pursue. A cousin recently sent me a photo of her which I was going to post up here but it seems I don't have that option. It was the oldest relative whose photo I've seen, prob early 1900s. My husband's family have a lovely little painting of his 3 x great grandmother from early 1800s (they're the posher side...).
Danielle