Thank you Alethea, Lucy and Kiwi ... I'm just working through all the ideas you've raised so far (it's such a pain having to go to work when there's genealogy to do!)
Alethea: I did visit the Nelson Provincial Museum 3 years ago and go through their index, taking notes of all the Wakefields. I know a lot more now though than I did then, and I should probably follow up on some of the new related surnames that I've discovered. Is the Motueka group the main NZSG group covering Nelson? I know, I really should join NZSG *blush*
Looking again at my notes from there, I've listed an 'Eliza Amelia Wakefield', daughter of John Wakefield, Farmer, and 'Christina Amelia Wakefield, nee Lankow' marrying James Coutts Dallas, both aged 22, 24 Je 1890 at Wanganui, born in Nelson.
You wouldn't name three daughters Clara Elizabeth, Mena Eliza and Eliza Amelia, would you??
Their correspondence file also listed Clara Mary Wakefield, daughter of William Wakefield and Amelia Schwass, b. 1886 Nelson, m. Wanganui 18 Sep 1909, aged 23. Something about Wakefields being born in Nelson and marrying in Wanganui??
Lucy: Thank you - I'm a Librarian by trade, and I know how easy it is to get facts tangled if they're not laid out!
I'm with you on that IGI submitted 1831 birth entry. It doesn't look right to me. I'm also becoming convinced that it's two different men; John marrying Christina, and then William marrying Amelia. Several sources would appear to be confusing things, with Maria/Amelia and John/William getting switched around.
I'll concentrate on searching for a John Wakefield death first, I think. Thank you Althea for those Wairau entries. I haven't brought up John Wakefield before here - on the first thread I did, I was trying to work out why I wasn't finding George William Wakefield's parents, Clara and Alexander, but it was because George was illegitimate and they married after he was born. The rest of his siblings are Grays.
Lucy: I suspect Dorothy Christina will be a sibling - Christina Lankow has several Dorotheas in her family tree. I've been working on George Henry Wakefield for the past few days! He was born around the same year as Clara Elizabeth, and he's also buried at Wakapuaka.
I went through every Wakefield listed in Nelson cemeteries and tried to put their family relationships together. George Henry's son Leslie George married Clara's daughter Florence Mary Gray - so both her mother's maiden name, and her married name, are Wakefield! No wonder it gets tangled :-)
Off to work on deaths.