I am so sad to hear of Harry Patch's death. If we are allowed to have a favourite amongst these remarkable men, he was mine. His WW1 experience and his subsequent outspoken views on the horrors of war, his pacifist stand point and his dignity were second to none. And his refusal to be too old for romance in his life was quite amazing. We could all learn from him.
But please can I tell you a story......
Firstly, I need to tell you that I left home on Thursday last week, to travel south to celebrate my daughter's wedding on Saturday. From Friday morning until Sunday afternoon, I saw no television and heard no radio - far too busy with the event in hand. I've been so out of touch that I don't even know if Henry Allingham's funeral has happened yet.
I woke up at three o'clock on Saturday morning - obviously full of last minute worries about the day to follow.
But the really strange thing was that going through my head for the next three four hours or so was the song "When This Lousy War Is Over", as featured in the film "Oh What A Lovely War" . At about six o'clock, I mentioned it to my partner and said, in what I thought was a rather fanciful manner, that I was wondering whether Harry Patch might have died. About an hour later I said the same thing to my ex husband, who looked at me as if I was barking mad and that he had better humour me. He sang a line of the song just to prove that he remembered it.
I didn't hear the actual news of Harry Patch's death until I was on my way home today. It shook me because I am not much given to fanciful notions - even my partner was rendered speechless for a while.
I now know that he died a little later that morning. What I don't understand is why, on the morning of such an important and happy day for my family, should I wake up singing a song from the trenches and one which I haven't heard or thought about for a very long time.
I don't really believe in things spiritual - I like a rational explanation for everything. But was there anyone else out there who was unwittingly singing Harry Patch's final hours??
Jen