There is a bit of me that thinks (and I know before I get jumped on that it is not completely black and white) that if these people had kept in touch with the deceased in the first place they would presumably have been in a will!
I know there are a lot of ifs and buts in that statement but perhaps we should all just try a little harder to communicate once in a while with our family.
Kerry
That's ok if you know your family. Ok I know 4 cousins on my fathers side but I know there are lots more who I have never met and no nothing about.
Through family history I have contacted 2 cousins on my mothers side but there are more that I know nothing about.
So sometimes its not that you don't keep in touch its finding out who family are.
Christine
I agree. My father was never close to his family, and he had a son by a previous marriage (his first wife died). When our half-brother came to live with us when I was a little boy, things were OK at first, but my father was really annoyed that his oldest son spent so much betting on horses and dogs, and eventually things came to a head, and my father threw him out. Our half-brother always believed that it was our mother that had him thrown out, and later in life (after a car accident and several strokes) he became even more belligerent towards her. My sister and I did what we could to keep in touch with our half-brother, but he was very reclusive, and he didn't have a phone, and would not reply to letters. When my sister lived close to him, she would periodically visit him to make sure he was OK, and to help him wherever she could. Then, my sister moved to another county, and was not able to visit as often as she did, but she did leave details with him with her new address and phone number.
Time went by, and one day my sister and I were talking about our half-brother in a phone conversation, and she remarked that it had been quite some time since we heard from him. As I had an Ancestry subscription, I looked up his name in the deaths section, and found that someone with that name, in the same area that he lived had died early in the year 2000, so we sent off for a death certificate. This was our haf-brother, who had died in hospital after a sudden heart attack, and apparently social services could not find anything in his flat that would indicate the next-of-kin.
We then found out that his estate had been found by an heir hunters firm (not one of those featured in the BBC series) and apparently the estate had been paid out to our half-brother's cousins, because (allegedly) the company thought that we were half-siblings by virtue of our mother and not of our father. Fortunately, the cousins had taken out a Missing Beneficiary Insurance, which eventually paid us our rightful inheritance, but that was after a year of legal wrangling and £3000 in legal fees.
This is the reason why I know quite a lot about inheritance and estates where there is no will. However, there was a silver lining - not only did I make contact with cousins on my father's side that I had never met, I also was given copies of photographs of people in my father's family, which was a real bonus. And - more possible icing on the cake - I found out that one of my cousins on my father's side has no children, so we could all get another windfall if he has not made a will