Hi
If he were the son of a Lieutenant Colonel and began a career in the army then in an earlier period a commission would have been bought for him (abolished 1871 under Cardwell's reforms) but you would still expect him to attend a military college and enter the service as an officer. It would certainly have been a disgrace for the family if he had wanted to enlist in the army in the ranks (working his way up to sergeant) and what gentleman in the C19th would want to? If you wanted to make your own way in the world as an educated young man from the best private schools you would hardly want the life of an ordinary soldier in the C19th.
Cardwell's reforms of the 1860s and 1870s which eliminated such punishments as flogging (finally in 1880) were designed to
'attract good quality recruits by ensuring the private soldier's life was better than a kind of penal servitude.'Charles Babbage family's children all seem to have had two first names at least as you would expect with a wealthy family including Henry Provost Babbage's son Henry Whitmore Babbage who appears to have been his only son.
This looks to be the likeliest marriage for William Babbage (the 1891 census says S? R E survey - I can't get surveyor out of that first word) and his wife Mary A from the 1891 census. Mary A Babbage on the 1891 census gives her birthplace as Dulverton and her age as 32. On the 1881 census there is a Mary A Lyddon aged 22 unmarried born Dulverton and working as a servant - a cook in Westbury on Trym which is covered by Barton Regis registration district. Emma Lyddon niece born Dulverton is with the family in 1891.
Marriages Sep 1881
AVERY Edwin Barton Regis 6a 199
BABBAGE William Barton Regis 6a 199
INSALL Anna Maria Barton R. 6a 199
LYDDON Mary Anne Barton R. 6a 199
see also
http://myweb.tiscali.co.uk/espenett/index1a.htm?pafhtmd/ballard/index.htm&3for the surname Babbage
Regards
Valda