Thanks for all your help Pat.
Daniel disappeared too, but I do have record of him leaving Scotland so I am now trying to prove he died at sea. It is a very sad story.
Or as my husband just said she could have had a sharp tongue.
It appears 3 men deserted her, and she lost 4 of her children young.
Oh well I have typed out what I know for Amy, she'll have lots of things to tell her grandma.
Thank you for all your help, cheers Ted