Hello Martha
I am thrilled to hear from you - it`s always good to learn about another branch of the family. My great grandfather was Amelia`s oldest son, Alfred Thomas.
In 1871 Amelia is calling herself a widow and working at the Barley Mow Inn, Droitwich - the Innkeeper is a widower Henry Todd and on 21/10/1873 Amelia married Henry Todd. Florence Mary Todd was born in 1874 (but died in 1883), and Edith Annie Todd was born in 1877. However the marriage seems to have collapsed as in 1881 Amelia Todd is working in Wakefield (still calling herself `married`) and Henry Todd is in Aston (Birmingham), with 2 of his sons & calling himself a widower.
Most of the children seem to have been boarded out at some point in their lives - I can`t decide if Amelia was a bad mother or very unlucky! Because of this you may have missed one of her sons - Reginald Alexander Boardman who was born in Devon in 1864. There was also another daughter, Amy Cecilia who was born on the Isle of Wight in1862 but died in 1866 at Belgrave Street, Kings Norton - which is where Amelia`s mother Catherine Solomon was living.
I have lots more information which I would be very happy to share with you but I quite understand if you prefer to puzzle things out for yourself. I would love to know more about Henry Jesse too - am I right in thinking he was in the Navy?
Kind regards Jane