Hi Linda,
We spent christmas in a cow barn converted to a cottage on the coast above Cardigan Bay. It rained and blew like fury for six days out of seven, but hey, we escaped all the christmas nonsense and had a proper chill-out. Sorry I haven't replied to your PM to date. My (nearly) father in law has been unwell and in hospital and it's been a bit frantic since we got back home.
I would guess that your Mum's card from Edie was from my auntie. I'm not sure, but I think she was one of the Dove part of the family, which would add up. How I wish my lovely old Dad was here to ask about all this. He would have been thrilled. My parents' ashes sit by the side of my desk and I've told them about it all, but no reply yet! Edie lived in Rushden and her daughter Dorothy is still in touch with me. She's lovely, too. All the Doves I've known are, even if they're called West. I owe her a call, so I'll tell her of our connection and see if she can fill in some of the missing information for us. Violet's daughter Phyllis is still alive as far as I know, living in Colne, Lancashire, but I think Violet was one of the Wests. That's just made me wonder if she knows that Mum has died. I have a number, so I'll ring her and again see what she can tell me. It's a very convoluted family. Looking through Mum's massive phone book I've just come across a Diane Dove nearby at Holcot. I've never heard of her before, so she may not be related, but it's worth a call, I guess. My problem is always finding time to sit down without other pressures and do these things. I'll pass on anything I find out. The chronology of the West (Dove) children and which section of the family they belong to would be a good starting point, methinks. I believe the oldest, Maud, was born about 1887 and Dad, the last, was 1915, so there's a 28 year spread there. I know Maud (then Beehan) had two sons, but I have no contact information. Likewise Ivy (then Lilford) had a son, Don, who I'm told still lives in Northampton, but again no contact information. I only re-met my cousin Dorothy about three years ago, having last seen her at her wedding in 1960/61.
I'd better sign off now, as I'm full of cold and need my beauty sleep desperately. Never seems to make any improvement, though! Take care, and I'll come back with anything I find out.
All the best,
Stuart