PM:
Oh, yes... the allure of the mystery, plus the many layers. It is absolutely intoxicating. I almost don't want this to stop. But I do, and I'll tell you the reason why.
My great grandmother Jessie is revered among my mother and her siblings. My mom's parents were fairly nuts and abusive, while her grandmother Jessie and grandfather Joseph were unconditionally loving and genuinely kind. My mom and her eldest sister spent lots of time with Jessie and Joseph, whose fortune was wiped out with the Depression. Despite their loss and extreme change in living conditions, they were happy, and they loved to share their happiness and whatever else they had with their grandkids. They also told great stories that my mom and her sisters and brother loved to hear, and the story of Lady Anne reached back the furthest. Because of the artifacts, and the tradition of handing them down through the girls, generation to generation, the connection with Lady Anne and my mom and here sisters was very magical, yet very real.
There were many other objects kept of Jessie and Joseph's lives, but when my mom's father died in the 1980's, his second wife left the country without telling anyone, after selling or trashing all of the family heirlooms, photographs, diaries, etc. All that we found was an empty house that we couldn't go in because it had been sold. It devastated my mother. She couldn't speak for two weeks.
So my aunts are in their 80's and my mother in her 70's. Their brother, who was very much a part of this research and discovery, passed away one year ago. Lady Anne has been so much a part of their joyous memory of their grandmother, their entire childhood. The stories of her are part of what bonds them together. Years ago it became my quest to make real this person who's presence they have felt all their lives. Before any more of them leave this earth, I would love to be able to give them that gift.
So, the help that all of you are providing is quite a gift to myself, but is especially appreciated on behalf of my mother and her siblings. They are thrilled.
PM, I digress. Answers to your post with my next post.
Joe