hi marya
thanks for your infomation, my infomation came from 1911 census, after looking for mary ellens illigit daughter, her baptism i was given from a very reliable relative whom also does family history and actually confirmed it from igi records, from there i got the 1911 census which states mary ellen clayton is living with her parents as may chadwick, as she had married by 1911 and her daughter was with her as was her other daughter through marriage.
on the census mary ellens parents were stated as george clayton and margaret married for 36 yrs, i do have this couple with children in 1901 census but cant find them before that.
the only marriage i could find was a george clayton and 2 other woman in the right time frame, i had tried lanc bmd yesterday but i got no joy, i have just tried again and bingo you are right.
so now whom is this margaret and how long have they actually been married for? if they are actually married at all