Firstly I must apologise for the error I made previously, I do understand the rules and will make sure I adhere to them, thank you. None of the names below are of living people.
I have spent many hours at 1901censusonline and freebmd and I think I'm on the right path but of course there is always one gap, frustrating.
Charles Raymond Manners 4 May 1930 Swansea, mother Hilda Rees = Confirmed.
Hilda Rees married Frederick W Manners Dec Qtr 1921 Swansea 11a 2177, certificate ordered.
Frederick W Manners then appears on the 1911 Census, his mother Mary Jane James married to an Arthur James in Swansea.
In the 1901 census she appears as Mary Jane Manners RG 13/2938 as a widow, Frederick is her youngest child. This seems to tie in that she was widowed by the census of 1901.
Then I went looking for deaths of Manners and found only one that seemed obvious to me,
Frederick Henry Manners died age 28 Sunderland 3rd Q 1901 10a 443. This seems to tie in that she was widowed by the census of 1901.
But!!! I have trawled the marriages for him from 1891 through to 1896 2nd Qtr and cannot find anything.
I pick Frederick H up in the 1891 census.
I cannot make a link with Mary Jane ? marrying a Manners. Can help connect the dots or educate me on where else to try for the records.
I have thought of ordering Frederick Henry Manners death certificate but not if I should if I can't find his marriage?
Many thanks.