Thanks Pinot for your words......Unfortunately, unlike today, when I was young, certain family 'goings on' were never mentioned and also with both mum and dad having had parents who had married before, there was also a certain amount of bad feeling with brothers and sisters of the first marriage.
I really get interested in how people meet....for example my mothers mother came from a family who were flax growers and weavers in somerset, one of them went to london and sold goods in the rag trade in London, he then worked there and moved to a chandlers shop in the old kent road, selling cloth, which is where my grandmother was born. My gfather, a fisherman in Folkestone also had a ships chandlers shop and I think would go up to London to buy sailcloth, rope etc ....they married and I believe dad, a londoner, would deliver these goods to Folkestone and met mum.......
Yes Alan... I am a GR member and there are some Ramplings on there but I have been in contact and neither of us have yet established a connection.
My gggfather was born out of wedlock to a Mary Chandler and on the various certs I have and census, the surname keeps changing from Rampling to Chandler, then to Rampling- Chandler then to Chandler- Rampling and then finally Rampling....
Just getting a bit of relief from the London-Folkestone side to work on my own Welsh side!!
Very interested tv programme on earlier giving a glimpse of how people managed during the war in the valleys....some present day families were 'transported back in time to then' to live and work like they did.
It mentioned that there were 2000 soldiers etc there during the war and wives of servicemen would have to work locally - some in the munitions factory.
Thank you Seoras....makes me feel better already.
Bill