Going over my notes and trying to clarify some things I found this old thread.
But IF Essex and Mary (Hartop) were siblings then could Elizabeth have gone to stay with her uncle, rather than live with her stepfather and his new wife, after the death of her mother?
Later
Essex Hartop age 77 was buried at Cardington on 9 Feb 1813
There was also an Essick Hartop living in Keysoe in the 1803 Muster List, unmarried Class 1 ie aged between 17 and 30. He was baptised in Keysoe on 3 Oct 1779, son of Thomas & Sarah. Not sure what he's got to do with the price of bananas!
I wonder if Essex Hartop from Cardington may have also lived in Colmworth and also married Mary Jordon at Elstow Beds and had a son with Mary in Cardington before he was buried there in 1813?
Essex and his wife Elizabeth Urine née
Billen married in Cardington on 29 March 1763, with children baptised in Cardington
Thomas Hartop bap Mar 1764, Mary Hartop bap Jul 1765 , Joseph Hartop bap Sep 1766, Pheobe Hartop bap Sep 1766.
Was Essex later in Colnworth?
Joseph
Billing Hartop bap May 1772 Colnworth s of
Essex and Elizabeth NB Essex Hartop wife Elizabeth nee
Billen. This son Joseph had the given name of Billing, was this from his mothers maiden name?
Did Essex move briefly back to Colmworth. Is this the reason Essex left Colmworth?;
Essex Hartop a Farmer of Colmwowrth committed to Debtors Cells 4 Jan 1772 discharged 4 Apr 1772.
This could not be Essex born 1779 the son of Thomas and Sarah Hartop. Perhaps a different Essex Hartop but surely there cannot be too many with a name like that! And with the baptism of Joseph Billing Hartop in Colnworth???
Is there a burial for Elizabeth Hartop in Colnworth or Cardington from 1772-1793?
Did Essex remarry before he died in 1813 aged 77?
Essex Hartop married
Mary Jordon 24 Dec
1793 at Elstow Beds
Then Joseph Hartop bap 1794 Cardington s of Essex and
Mary.
The other Essex Hartop the son of Thomas Hartop and Sarah Sabey was bap in 1779 at Keysoe.
As you said he was unmarried on the Muster list in Keysoe in
1803 so did not marry Mary Jordan in 1793 (and he would have been too young)
BUT Essex Hartop born 1779 Keysoe however could have married;
Essex Hartop bach otp married Ann Tilsley spins married 16 Oct 1810 Cripplegate London (The Dissenters Registration for births was in Cripplegate were Essex brother John of Keysoe registered the births of his children) both make their marks the witness were William Sutton and Sarah Sutton both signed
Did Essex die;
Essex Hartopp of Royal Hill aged 49 born 1780 (age agrees with baptism in Keysoe) buried 24 Dec 1829 at Greenwich St Alphege.
In 1841 living in Greenwich is Ann Hartop born 1781 Not Kent with her son George? Was she Essex Hartops widow?
Did they also have a son John Hartop bap 1811 Greenwich Kent s of Essex and Ann
Back to the elder Essex HartopIf Essex Hartop buried at Cardington was aged 77 in 1813 he was born
1736. If Thomas Hartop was born
1838 and Mary Hartop was born
1741 they were similar ages. Perhaps as you suggest they were siblings.
Strangely, although I have a note of a baptism for Mary Hartop on 29 March 1741 at Keysoe d Thomas and Sarah (who married Francis Elms) I could not find this on IGI. Do you have this baptism?
Thos Hartop farmer of Keysoe aged 36 (born
1735) married Sarah Seaby and named a son Essex in 1779
I could not find a baptism for Thomas Hartop born 1735 Keysoe but do have;
William Hartop s of Thomas and Sarah bap 28 Oct
1735 at Keysoe Beds. Is this a mistranscription?
Maybe Essex Hartop’s
1736 baptism is hiding in the same place as the other baptisms!?! Perhaps in Colmworth if he farmed there!
I notice that Thomas Hartop (1735) first marriage to Judith Flanders was on 18 Feb
1760 at Keysoe Beds which was the same day as
Sarah Hartop married John Combs. Was Sarah Hartop a spinster and perhaps Thomas Hartops sister or if she was a widow perhaps this is the marriage of Thomas Hartop’s widowed mother (if she was Sarah)?