Anastasia Donohoe from Abbeyside Dungarvan

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Hello

I am trying to find out about my grandmother Anastasia. The surname could also be O'Donoghue and any other variant. My Great Grandfather was Captain John O'Donoghue. he was married to Katherine Phelan/Whelan.
I have her birth as c. 1882. She married in Dover many years later.

My problem is that, between her birth and marriage ,I cannot find her on any Census.
I heard a rumour that she had married 'beneath' her, a farmhand?

I hope someone can enlighten me - long shot.

I have resumed my family tree search after 6 months away from it as it was taking up too much of my time and money (Paul I will get back to your email)
Thank you

Anastatia was the daughter of John & catherine Whelan, other siblings were,Bridget 1897,John 1886, and John 1866., mary 1876 & 1879.
Eddie