Hi Peem
That John & Mary's first child was born in Scotland isn't unexpected - it was quite common for a Scottish woman to go back to her own mother/parents home to have her first child - and John & Mary were relatively not too far away in England (being in Northumberland) to make the trip, though it's not necessarily so that John also went back. Was Mary, daughter of Alexander SUTHERLAND from Caithness and do you know the name of her mother (was it Jane?)
I see from the Census
1861: Tynemouth
John MENZIES 32, b Scotland abt 1829
Mary MENZIES 32, b Scotland abt 1829
Jane 3 b Scotland
Barbara 1 b Scotland
(actually registered in Tynemouth 1859)1871: Tynemouth
Mary MENZIES 44, b Scotland (abt 1827)
Jane MENZIES 13, b Scotland
Barbara MENZIES 11, b North Shields
Peter MENZIES 10, b North Shields
Alexander MENZIES 3, b North Shields
What I get from this is:
* They were showing traditional habits - 1st son was named after John's father, Peter. 2nd son was named after Mary's father, Alexander (albiet a big gap between those 2 sons where other births of possible sons could have occurred to swat down the naming pattern theory!)
* Following the same naming theory though, the 1st daughter would be after Mary's mother (Jane?) and there is a suitable looking Alexander SUTHERLAND in Spittal, Halkirk in 1861 with a wife named Jane B (for BAIN, I believe).
* Leaving the 2nd daughter to be named after John's mother, ie: Barbara.
If Mary was from Caithness, the fact her first daughter was born there doesn't add any weight to the idea that her husband John may have been from there also (unless you do have some other evidence that he was?)
In the IGI are these extracted records:
MARRIAGE: Peter MENZIES & Barbara MacLEY
Married May 1821, Dunfermline, Fife
BIRTHS: in Dunfermline to Parents: Peter MENZIES & Barbara McLEA
Samuel MENZIES b 1822
Augusta MENZIES b 1824
Elspith MENZIES b 1826
George MENZIES b 1828
John MENZIES b 29 Sep 1830Margaret MEZNIES b 1833
Then Census from FREEcen :
http://www.freecen.org.uk/cgi/search.pl1841: S Inglis Street, Dunfermline
Peter MENZIES 47, Cabinet M, b Fife
Augusta MENZIES 17, b Fife
George MENZIES 13, b Fife
John MENZIES 9, b FifeMargret MENZIES 8, b Fife
Peter MENZIES 4, b Fife
1851: 8 South Inglis Street, Dunfermline
Head: Peter MENZIES 62, Wright Master, b Monady, Perthshire
Son: Peter MENZIES 11, Scholar, b Dunfermline
With the age of Peter in 1841 - I'll bet that he was 52, and the enumerator completely misunderstood the instruction to round down the age to the nearest 5 years (ie: to age 50) and instead minused 5 years of his age (ie: to age 47).
It was Peter in 1851 Dunfermline that I found first and pegged as being the only suitable "Peter MENZIES, Joiner" in Scotland. When I checked the IGI Marriage and saw his wife was Barbara, I wasn't a bit surprised.. the rest just followed and fit so well......can't see a better looking family. On balance I think this is a good candidate for being John's family - just how to prove it beyond the circumstantial evidence!
Cheers
AMBLY