Hi Valda,
"Thank You", for your reply, which is very interesting and more perplexing.
It was the great grandfather Thomas that I was trying to find details for, Dawnsh had kindly informed me about Thomas the grandfather.
I was about to send for marriage details, hoping it might throw up something and to check that his brides surname was Salamon and to find his fathers name, which you say is John, a deceased farmer?, the details , Lambeth ond 1844, 4-306, is this for those details ?
Another surprise was that you say Thomas was down as a widower on that marriage certificate, I cannot find him anywhere, other than the 1861 census ?
It would seem that the christian name "Thomas" followed down the generations, so I am wondering if the Baptism in Deptford in 1925 was for him ?, age is right and the area ?
The older Thomas Bearman that you mention, a widower and engine driver, might also be him, as I couldn't find any birth details for 1825, which on 1861 census may not be correct.
Lastly Valda, if the marriage lines are the one, wouldnt it say widower on the 1861 census ?
Thanks again for your help.
regards