Hi Ann,
Thank you again for the offer. Here are a few details I'm still missing from my familytree.
John Windley: born 1842 Chigwell Essex. Father George mother Hannah (yes, that Hannah).
I have his whereabouts during the censuses of 1851, 1871 (royal navy, Ship Pylades), 1881, 1891. But not 1861

John died 1900 in Woodford, Essex.
Jane Maria Windley (nee Halls). born 1854 Woodford, Essex. married to the above mentioned John Windley in 1882. children Oscar John T. Halls 1877 (ill.), James William Halls 1879 (ill.), Zoe Ethel Windley 1889, John Rupert Windley 1891 and Bessie Kathleen Windley 1894.
Don't know when or when Jane Maria died

Was she still alive during census of 1901? I did find the death of a Jane Maria Poole in march 1902 in Chorlton (where is that?). Poole was the maiden name of her mother. But that would be a longshot. And why would she take on her mother's name?
You said you found a Hannah Windley who died in Woodbridge in 1877. Her daughter-in-law (Jane Maria) was from Woodbridge. Maybe she was living with her in 1877? although she wasn't married yet to John. She did have an ill. son Oscar John T. (T. for Thomas?).
The interesting part here is that the John Windley she married was named John Thomas Windley. Is this maybe a hint that John is the father? Questions, questions, questions. It drives me crazy (sometimes).
Sarah Jane Wilson (nee Stirrups) born 1846 Luddesdown Kent. Would like to know when she died.
Robert Wilson (hubby) born 1840 Highwood Essex, would like to know when he died as well. I'm quite sure that Robert still lived in 1912 (The lived in Shorne Kent I think). I have a bible/birthday book of him. One of the entries he made was: 11 April 1912 The loss of Titanic, lost 1509. Isn't that great? I don't know if the date and number of lives lost is correct, but great entrie anyway!
I'm missing many more details but these I know by heart. I was planning to stop researching the next two months (we're going to move soon), but I can't leave it alone. But stupid me already packed all of my genealogy stuff in boxes!!! And I can't access them anymore for the next 6-8 weeks! I'm addicted!
Anyway Ann, it would be great if you could find anymore details. If not, don't worry. I still appreciate every thing you've found for me so far.
All the best.
Ta ta
dutch missmarple
Ps where is your hubby from exactly?