Being a child in the 1960s I can recall “Uncle Charlie” visiting my Grandmother Bessie. I was always told he had to visit her in Norfolk as he’s used to get into scrapes in London and had to let the heat die down.
As I couldn’t find a Charles Boland I wondered if that was his real name. My one surviving Aunt told me he worked on the underground/railway.
As for Bessie – I can get more detail once I get my laptop repaired- unfortunately I saved everything on that!
She was married to a guy by the name of Hawkins who was apparently much older than her and was quite physically abusive so they divorced (a rare occurrence in the early the 1920s)
My Grandfather William Bencley Allday was a regular in the army before WW1 and was awarded the DCM before leaving the service at the end of the war. He stayed on in France initially with the War Graves Commission before returning to the UK and worked in London where he met Bessie.
She had 2 children George and a female whose name I cannot recall at present and a further 7 with William (or Curly as he was known). That Lewis (Mick), Ruth (Toots), William (Bill), Benjamin ( Ben & my father), Edward (Curly), Doris (Dolly) and Alan. Only Dolly & Alan are still surviving. Research has found they had 4/5 of the children out of wedlock!
Mick, Toots, Bill and Ben were evacuees during the London Blitz and moved back to Wimbotsham, Norfolk the village where Curly Snr was born. Eventually the remaining family moved back to Norfolk – where the majority of the children and grandchild of Curly & Bessie still live today in fairly close proximity to each other.
Curly died in 1963 I think (I will send exact dates later when my laptop is sorted out) and Bessie died 1967 (?). Sadly the sons all seemed to die in middle age.
I was told last year that Bessie spent most of her summers in Cogan, South Wales and always wanted to visit. Alas she passed away before she did. Hence my surprise to find that I live within a few miles of Cogan.
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