HI PJ,
Many thanks for the headstone information, it was very good of you to go and find it for us. Am so looking forward to standing there and seeing it for my self. As for the grave in Tulla, I haven't found, as yet, any Jannet Sinclair in the family, her birth would have been around 1780, her birth date would make her the age of Thomas' mother but we have no information about his parents at all. We only have a short time in Ireland at the end of our trip but will definitely email if time permits to go to this grave as well.
again thank you
Dianne