Have you gone through all the resources on the various States resources boards at RChat ?
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?board=399.0For Neil
( I suspect that it is just a tad too far for a child to walk from Kent to NSW)
Heres the NSW BDM transcriptions for George marriage and death
1862 NSW BDM marriage #3259
George AMOS, Bachelor, born Kent England, a miner, aged 25, usual residence Fairy Meadow
His parents Thomas AMOS, overseer; Anne TILBY
Jane BARKER, spinster, born at sea, a farmer’s daughter, aged 20, usual residence Fairy Meadow,
Her parents John BARKER, farmer Margaret HANNAH
Married 7 May 1862, at the House of the Bride’s father, Fairy Meadow, District of Wollongong NSW with the consent of John Barker, father of the bride.
By James SOMERVILLE, Wesleyan rites
Witnesses Francis KEARNS and Mary BARKER
Birth place/ ages (of bride and groom) and details of their parents were obtained from Church Register No 33. (so the marriage cert has been reconciled by NSW BDM circa 1912-1915.
1908 NSW BDM death #7956
George AMOS, 14 June 1908 at Bulli NSWOld Age Pensioner, Miner, Aged 69
Born Kent England
Time in Aust Colonies …. Came to NSW When a Child, Age not known
Father (Given name unknown) AMOS unknown occupation
Mother Unknown
Place of Marriage Wollongong NSW at age 21 to Jane Argle BARKER (deceased)
Children of Marriage : John 45, Annie 42, Ellen 38, Theresa 34, William 27 LIVING; 1 male 3 females deceased
Informant William AMOS, son Bulli
Burial 16 June 1908, C of E Cemetery, Bulli Rev Philip W Dowe, with John Myles as undertaker and Sharman Graham and William Bane as official witnesses.
Cheers, JM