Hi Jorose
Wow, what can I say! Thank you very much for finding all those sources. The William Stephens who was born in Aberdeen does appear to be my ancestor. All the dates listed match perfectly.
Reading through his service record, I discovered William spent eight years in the East Indies and fought at the Battle of Waterloo in 1815 and as such appears on the Waterloo Medal Roll which can be found on Ancestry and Findmypast
As you suspected, there was no next of kin listed in William’s service record. I’ll ask around if anyone has access to the Aberdeen parish records, although I’m aware that Scotland didn’t always have good record keeping.
I will also ask in the Military forum for help on tracking the 69th Regiment movements during William’s enlistment. This site -
http://www.nam.ac.uk – lists that the 69th was in the Far East until 1826 when it switched to garrison duties back in England. So if William’s eight years in the East Indies was unbroken, then he would have left Britain c.1818. Given that his daughter Elizabeth was born ‘On the Sea’ c.1826, (which would fit that baptism record you found) it would mean Harriet must have travelled out there with him. This in turn would mean she was about 15 when they met.
As for Harriet herself, I probably should order their youngest child’s birth certificate to double check the spelling of her maiden name. I know that another descendant of this family has her surname spelt as Mauldin. If I use soundex searches against her surname, I get several more varieties including Melton and Milton.
As for her potential sibling, I got the name wrong in my previous post. There is a John Malden who was born c.1800 and died aged 40 in 1840 at Ipswich. Given that I cannot find a link for either William or Harriet to have travelled to Ipswich after his discharge, this John looked like a potential lead