Thanks so much everyone! I really appreciate the rapid response and the input.
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1) No there is absolutely nothing on either the Death Cert or the Marriage Certificate about where he came from, or who his parents were.
2) Thanks for the link to the christening records. I will be in the UK in that area next month, is there a way to get copies of them?
3)Re Henry - well that seems to debunk the slim chance that Alfred Henry Hatter on the NZ probate docs was Charles' brother. We are still trying to check into that.
4) I was pretty convinced the Devizes family was our ancestor. If so, I knew he had a younger brother and a younger sister. His father died quite young (can't find out why) and his mother apparently died 2 years later (also don't know how). They turned up with the Cottle family. The trail went dead after that.
5) One thing that threw me for a bit of a loop was that an Elizabeth Hatter turned up in the census a few years after the supposed death of the mother as a servant in a household. She seemed to be the right age to have been Charles' mother. At this point I started to doubt myself and whether I had the correct family
6) I found a Lucy Hatter and ended up in a maze of Hatters and was totally lost.
7)Thanks very much for the information on Henry! That might prove to be a valuable connection to pursue.
I have no knowledge of what happened to Mary
9) I wonder if either John/Jane Hatter was a sibling of Edmond.
10) It seems possible Mrs Cottle was related to one of Charles' parents - I will try to check into a marriage certificate for that couple.
11) I have been unable to figure out where Charles went after that census with the Cottles.
Questions:
1) would he have been too old to go to a workhouse? Age 14+
2) is it possible he was one of the children "shipped off" to the colonies? Or
3) Could he have emigrated himself at the age of around 15?
He doesn't show up in NZ records (that I have found so far) until he is 27 (1876) and marrying Janet. However, he was there before that because he had a home and owned a couple of parcels of land.
p.s. I was amused by the signature line about genealogy being a Pandora's box -- My mother requested that I start researching her family and therefore, set me on this path, and so far - it has mostly been a story of misery and hardship - no royalty here!!!!