Scotmum – thank you very much. That has led me to a little breakthrough. I followed the link and found Mary Wylie had exactly the right D.O.B. to be the one who married Samuel Millar Alexander. Then at the weekend I finally found this notice in the Belfast Newsletter April 28th 1860:
“April 26, in Templepatrick Trinitarian Church, by the Rev.H. M. C. Hamilton, assisted by the Rev. U. J. Gillespie, Donegore, Mr James Ferguson, Four-mile-burn, to Elizabeth, eldest daughter of the late Mr E. D. Wiley, Ballycushion, Templepatrick.”
So there we go – that answers one of the main questions I had in mind when I created this thread. Now I know how the Alexander family were related and why some relative wrote down the family tree. By the way, where does one access the Dublin Freeman’s Journal – is it available online? (I couldn’t find Mary’s marriage in the Belfast Newsletter.)
I’ve started to realise how useful the Belfast burial records are... Grave K 343, City Cemetery, Belfast:
Mary Alexander NK 11 January 1949 13 January 1949
Mary Alexander 71 Years 20 July 1913 22 July 1913
Samuel M Alexander 39 Years 6 August 1880 9 August 1880
Jane Wiley 76 Yrs 13 June 1884 16 June 1884
I reckon Jane Wiley (b. c1808) was the wife of Ezekial Wylie (b. 1805).
Also, the grave next to this (K 342) is Ann Morrow (died 12 April 1924, aged 83), who was mentioned in the family register as a long-standing servant of the family (she also shows up in the census).