Thank you to Jen, Monica and Jonn.
I was looking at this family again more carefully yesterday and noticed a couple of points which I forgot to mention in my (very long) question. I was regretting posting such a long post and was just about to ask a moderator to remove this for me as last time I looked I had no replies. I was going to simplify things and ask for a couple of specific lookups. I'm glad I didn't as there have been some excellent points raised and finds made by the three of you.
I have found myself going round and round in circles with this family and even doubting that I have the correct David Thomson and Margaret McQueen, but I am sure I am correct.
Firstly I think I have the correct certificates - the correct death for David Thomson in 1877 and the correct death for his wife Margaret McQueen/Rowan in 1890 - both deaths in Paisley.
So that means that the birth of the Margaret in 1814 and her parents John McQueen and Mary Johnston I found in Killarrow are
incorrect. It is good to have cleared that up. So that means that my Margaret McQueen is possibly Peggy who was christened in 1816 in Killarrow with parents Donald McQueen and Nancy Clark. Does that seem likely? I found a sibling, John, with same parents chr in 1819, but can't see any other siblings on Familysearch.
A clue that I have the correct family in 1871 (where Margaret McQueen and her daughters are living with John Scott and family) - when Catherine Thomson marries John Hendrie in 1879 one of the witnesses is John Scott (who would be Catherine's brother in law). So that fits quite nicely.
On the 1871 census there's a Margaret McQueen born 1819, Bowmore, unmarried, living with her widowed sister-in-law called Mary - if we knew who Mary married maybe it would help place this Margaret with the correct parents. At least that would eliminate one set of parents for your Margaret.
David's not easy to find in 71 - there is a David Thomson, 50, labourer born Ireland lodging at High Church in Lanarkshire but he's describing himself as a widower...
I think the wee lassie is an 'examiner of shirting' - you've got to love the transcriptions they must be using OCR rather than humans.
I'd like to have a better look at the 10 'Mar* McQueens showing living in Argyllshire in 41 but there appears to be a problem with Freecen at the moment - I keep getting the 'server busy' notice.
Jen
Thank you Jenny. I will have a look at that Margaret and David pus the 10 Mar* McQueens in 1841. It is difficult to know if Margaret would be Margaret McQueen or Thomson (I know the Scottish women used both married and maiden surnames almost interchangeably).
Thanks for clarifying the "examiner of shirting" occupation - that makes a lot more sense.
Hi Ruskie and Jen
There is a death or burial entry showing on the OPRs in Abbey Parish, Renfrewshire for a Matthew ROWON in 1839. Wondered whether this could be Margaret's first husband?
Monica
That is very interesting - thank you Monica. Would there be mention of name of wife or anything identifiable to let me know if it is the correct death?
Have you checked the marriage for Margaret daughter to John Scott in 1870 I think? Going by this post here http://archiver.rootsweb.ancestry.com/th/read/LANARK/2001-06/0991679072 Thought it might give you further details on father David and mother Margaret, witnesses, addresses etc.
Guess also that in 1861 that you show above, Mary aged 12 is actuall Marg. (which often transcribes as Mary)?
Similarly, again a guess, Agnes b. 1856 https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XY5Y-Y3B - I am thinking she is the Ann in 1861 showing aged 6 maybe (not accurate, but there was no Ann born to David and Margaret in 1855-6 was there?
Monica
Thank you Monica - great information as usual and love the way you approach these problems. It is a great idea to look at John Scott's marriage to Margaret. I shall do that. And Margaret=Mary, Agnes=Ann of course makes sense. I spent
ages looking for Agnes yesterday and didn't think to check for her as Ann.
As you say, no Anns in the family
[however Jonn found one but age is wrong to be this Ann.
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