This thread has brought up a variety of sub-topics, and shown that people have some strong opinions on the subjects raised. Please, I ask everyone who has and will contributed to this thread to keep it civil, and try and present a calm argument when making your point.
Stillborn births are something that a lot of people do feel uncomfortable talking about. From my own experience, the mothers show the whole gamut of emotion, some wanting to not discuss it, while others openly acknowledge and share their stories. There is no right or wrong.
My wife falls into the latter category. Many years ago, she fell pregnant, and gave birth to a stillborn. She had unsupportive parents, and was not allowed to see or hold the baby at the hospital. For some inexplicable reason, the staff at the hospital did not get a photo of the baby either, even though it was SOP at the time. When we got together, she shared her story with me. We visit the small plaque where the child is buried, and discuss with anyone when the topic comes up. We do not hide the fact, and we even joked about having a birthday party this year, as it is a milestone for the baby.
