I try to explain things not just for you, but for everyone whom maybe interested.
I built a chart a few years ago using my own cousins as the example of how DNA recombination plays a roll in our autosomal DNA test results.
Laura ( mother is a Locke )
Laura is a 4th cousin to Donald D., they are not a match
Laura is a 3rd cousins 1x removed to Donald G Jr., they are a match
Laura is a 2nd cousins 2x removed to Jacob, they are a match
Laura is a 5th cousin 1x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
Laura is a 4th cousin to John, they are a match
Laura is a half 1st cousin to Debra, they are a match
Laua is a half 1st cousin to Allison, they are a match
Laura is a half niece to David, they are a match
Laura is a 4th cousin 1x removed to Kenneth, they are not a match
Donald G. Jr. is a 2nd cousin 3x removed to Jacob, they are not a match
Donald G Jr is a 3rd cousins 1x removed to Laura, they are a match
Donald G Jr is a 4th cousin to Donald D., they are not a match
Donald G Jr is a 6th cousin to Crystal, they are not a match
Donald G. Jr is a 4th cousin 1x removed to John, they are not a match
Donald G. Jr. is a 3rd cousin 2x removed to Debra, they are not a match
Donald G. Jr. is a 3rd cousin 1x removed to Allison, they are a match
Donald G. Jr. is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to David, they are a match
Donald G. Jr. is a 4 cousin 2x removed to Kenneth, they are not a match
Donald D. is a 4th cousin to Laura, they are not a match.
Donald D. is a 4th cousin to Donald G Jr, they are not a match.
Donald D. is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Jacob, they are a match.
Donald D is a 5th cousin 1x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
Donald D. is a 1st cousin to John, they are a match
Donald D. is a 4th cousin to Debra, they are a match
Donald D. is a 4th cousin to Allison, they are a match
Donald D. is a 3rd cousin 1x removed to David, they are a match
Donald D. is a 4th cousin 1x removed to Kenneth, they are not a match
Jacob is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Donald D., they are a match.
Jacob is a 2nd cousin 3x removed to Donald G Jr., they are not a match
Jacob is a 2nd cousins 2x removed to Laura, they are a match
Jacob is a 3rd cousin 3x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
Jacob is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to John, they are a match
Jacob is a 2nd cousin 2 time removed to Debra, they are not a match
Jacob is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Allison, they are a match
Jacob is a 2nd cousin 1x removed to David, they are a match
Jacob is a 3rd cousin 1x removed to Kenneth, they are not a match
John ( mother is a Locke )
John is a 4th cousin 1x removed to Donald G. Jr., they are not a match
John is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Jacob, they are a match
John is a 1st cousin to Donald D, they are a match
John is a 4th cousin to Laura, they are a match
John is a 5th cousin 1x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
John is a 4th cousin to Debra, they are a match
John is a 4th cousin to Allison( no information yet )
John is a 3rd cousin 1 time removed to David, they are not a match
John is a 5th cousin 1x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
John is a 4th cousin 1x removed to Kenneth, they are not a match
Debra is a 4th cousin to Donald D. they are a match
Debra is a 3rd cousin 2x removed to Donald G. Jr, they are not a match
Debra is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Jacob, they are not a match
Debra is a half 1st cousin to Laura, they are a match
Debra is a 4th cousin to John, they are a match
Debra is a 5th cousin 1x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
Debra is a half sibling to Allison, they are a match
Debra is a half niece to David, they are a match
Debra is a 5th cousin 1x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
Debra is a 4th cousin 1x removed to Kenneth, they are not a match
Allison is a 4th cousin to Donald D., they are a match
Allison is a 3rd cousin 1x removed to Donald G. Jr, they are a match
Allison is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Jacob, they are a match
Allison is a half 1st cousin to Laura, they are a match
Allison is a 4th cousin to John, they are a match
Allison is a 5th cousin to Crystal, they are not a match
Allison is a half sibling to Debra, they are a match
Allison is a half niece to David, they are a match
Allison is a 4th cousin 1x removed to Kenneth, they are a match
David is a 3rd cousin 1x removed to Donald D., they are a match
David is a 2nd cousin 2x removed to Donald G. Jr., they are a match
David is a 2nd cousin 1x removed to Jacob, they are a match
David is a half uncle to Laura, they are a match
David is a 3rd cousin 1x removed to John, they are not a match
David is a half uncle to Debra, they are a match
David is a half uncle to Allison, they are a match
David is a 4th cousin 2x removed to Crystal, they are not a match
David is a 4th cousin to Kenneth, they are a match